Moment of clarity one: Nothing shakes you like a forced ambulance ride in which you are wide awake.
Sunday, April 20: When I was loaded into the ambulance, I tried to understand what was going on in my body. For some reason, my heart wasn’t beating like it should. And I admit: I was a tad scared. But I wasn’t showing it. To everyone I looked cool, calm and collected. Well….not cool. And not calm. I’ve never been in an ambulence before, so you can imagine my attentiveness to everything.
What’s this?
What’s that?
The paramedics who rode with me….are very much the poorer for doing so. “Sir, that’s this.” “This is that.” One paramedic was unique. I don’t remember her name (Jennifer is my best guess), but I’ll NEVER forget what she said…on the 2.78 miles to the hospital.
She took one look at my vitals and said: “Oh man…you’re SO getting a pacemaker!!”
How does one respond to news both this disruptive in content AND delivery……….
How about: “Oh man..you SO need to get a date.”
Or: “Oh Man, you SO failed the “bedside manner classes” in nursing school.
Or: “Oh man you SO need a personality transplant so people won’t wish to kill you upon sight!
Or…well…you can see the depravity running through my brain.
We got to the hospital. They didn’t know where to take me. “2nd or 3rd floor?” “I don’t know.”
I chimed in: I don’t know either.
They laughed.
I didn’t.
They finally wheeled me into my floor and room. I was in ImCU. Not ICU. ImCU stands for “Inter-Mediate Care.”
Dang it. I wasn’t even good enough to make the full-blown Intensive Care. I was simply Intermediate.
2nd string.
The “B” Team.
Mandy had gone home to grab stuff. The nurses hooked me up to every monitor they knew how….and a few that they didn’t. My heart rate/beat/blood pressure/breating….all monitored.
I was Darth Pastor.
And….I was alone.
Just me, the room, my fears, and God.
No wife.
No friends.
No sly remarks to deflect the fact that I was more scared than Simon Cowell in the middle of 10,000 David Archeletta fans AFTER the Idol season finale.
Just me, God, fears….and crying. I cried intensely. I was so scared, then got mad because I was scared….after all I tell people to trust God for a living right?
Right. And in the middle of trusting God….one can admit that he’s scared.
But I couldn’t show fear in front of people Right?
Wrong. But being prideful prevented that…for a while.
Moment of clarity two: You can fool everyone into thinking that your heart (physical/spiritual) is fine. You can fool yourself into clouding over the problem by thinking “it’ll get better.” But deep down…you know. And deeper down: God knows. You’re not fooling Him.
More to come.
Jason